You are Always Worthy

What I learned is that if you are trying your best then that is usually good enough. The problem isn’t you per se, but the other people. I was trying so hard that I realized I was trying way harder than other people and not getting good results. I was always supportive of people, so I would go to volleyball games to cheer them on or stay after school to help. I was always available if somebody needed help with their homework, someone to talk to, or any help they needed. When I needed their help, I experienced a lot of ghosting, and not being invited was difficult.

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My Onion Journey

Yet, while I was in college, I felt a whole new level of emotions. When I was a junior, I felt a mixture of sadness, then anger, and then resentment. I was worried about my next step in life. I was afraid to ask my mom to discuss my family planning future with my geneticist or endocrinologist. “What if I can’t have kids?” I’d often wonder.

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